Tuesday, April 05, 2011
The Fall of Single Feather...
Flexibility
There are stories that tells people that is bad to judge people. It is bad to judge people by their appearance. After all, people might not behave they way you think they do.
Someone who dresses like a slut could be the sweetest person in the world. Someone who has a scar across his face doesn't mean he's a brute. Someone who is violent doesn't that he/she is not gentle.
Someone who behaves like an asshole 90% of the time can also mean that he is caring in the other 10%.
But I say, it is stupid to not to judge.
To judge someone by their appearance is to guess what kind of a person they are. If you do not judge a person by their appearance, it could be pretty dangerous.
For example, if someone who is holding a knife with blood, you'll judge that he is a dangerous person.
If you choose not to judge him, and give him a chance to explain to explain his knife, well. It could be too late.
To judge someone is not wrong. It gives you an insight of what to do. Of how to help your friends who are sincerely not good at something (Judging that they are bad at tennis, etc) or how they can help you (Judging those who likes tennis to teach you).
To not judge someone would be pretty stupid. Imagine getting someone who hates tennis with a vengeance to teach it to you.
The key, I think, is to be flexible. When you judge someone, know what you think they are. However, when you learn something new, change your perception.
For example, the man holding the knife comes aand asks you to call the ambulance. This could mean that he is trying to help someone who is injured. Hence, he's probably not dangerous.
It's fine to judge and be judged. Just be ready to change your opinions.
Have fun.
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