Monday, May 30, 2011
The Fall of Single Feather...
Phobic
A while back, I came upon the term known as commitment phobic. It made think a lot, and from time to time, ponder about myself.
Commitment phobic talks about fear of devoting yourself into something. This does not have to apply to romance, but in terms of school and work as well. It is a paradoxical relationship. The object of commitment is usually something you crave but fear ar the same time.
One thing I really thought of, was what do you do, if someone you know or better yet, someone you love is commitment phobic?
Do you become more understanding? More patient? More loving? But those aren't real solutions right? There is a limit for those things. Besides, it's not an actual action.
Some people could be more persistent, others could be more forgiving. Perhaps it depends on the moment, depending on what they really need.
But in the end, you sure as hell need to do something about it.
Have fun
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