Tuesday, September 13, 2011
The Fall of Single Feather...
It's just a personal opinion,
But I think insults and lowering someone's self esteem for the sake of their development, is severely underlooked.
Its true that people feel more motivated to learn if they are complimented, but the people who find success are those who have been through some hard times. If someone is used to going through difficult issues and plows his way through them, won't it be better?
By teaching with lots of motivation and love, would it actually be derimental to them in the future?
Tough love works. It has to fulfill several conditions to work at times, but it does work. The insults and violent projections does not make you crazy too. At least I'm not that crazy. And I've seen people who've been through worse but is still one of the nicest people I've ever seen.
But why do people only promote classical conditioning as a strategy? Because its scientifically proven? Or maybe its that it feels better to be complimented. Even though it feels the best to succeed at the end.
With Regards,
Taken by one of the magicians::
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